Saturday, October 27, 2012

Friday, October 26, 2012

The Grandmother Theory

The Grandmother Hypothesis says
our mothers' mothers are why we live so long.

Thursday, October 25, 2012

Good Morning Angels

Charlie's Angels Trading Cards
My sister and I had these.

Tuesday, October 23, 2012

Thursday, October 18, 2012

Babynaming

"Uma Thurman had a baby and named it Rosalind Arusha Arkadina Altalune Florence Thurman-Busson. Here's hoping it never falls in a well."

Wednesday, October 17, 2012

Three Winters


Anonymous Was A Woman

Irish Politician To Swap Lives With Single Mother For A Week
Like an episode of “Wife Swap” with feminist underpinnings and adorable accents,  an Irish politician plans to swap lives for a week with a single mother of three.

Senator John Gilroy from County Cork in Ireland will live trade lives with Andrea Gagley, an activist with Single Parents Acting For The Rights Of Kids. Gagley works a part-time job and takes a college course while raising her three sons on her own. She issued the challenge to politicians on the Facebook page for Ireland’s Labour Party and Gilroy, a married father of two, took her up on it.  He will live on her salary for a week while working at her part-time job and collecting her Lone Parent Allowance and Child Benefit Allowance (which I assume are Irish versions of welfare).  ”He is in for a very harsh landing. He may work long hours but he has back-up at home to facilitate that, whereas I have to do everything myself,” Gagley said. The Irish Herald reports that several production companies are seeking to make a documentary about Gilroy and Gagley’s “life swap."

On one hand I cheer for social experiments like this because single parents, but especially single mothers, get shat on in society. (Particularly I am referring to American society; I don’t know how Irish society treats its single moms.) People seem to think that stigmatizing single moms will punish them or scare young women from becoming single moms … as if single parenthood is a lifestyle choice every single person who goes into it has planned in advance. And yes, it’s single moms who bear the brunt of the single-parent stigma, not the absentee or abusive dads who are not in the picture.  I’m thinking, for example, RickSantorum’s helpful suggestion that single mothers needed, quote, a swift “kick in the butt.” That’ll show ‘em!

Of course, it’s a certain subset of single moms in particular that get shat on: low-income single moms and single moms of color are seen as problems in society, but being a financially well-off  woman who adopts or has her own kid(s) on her own can be seen as strong and independent, even noble. Instead we should be focusing on creating scenarios that help all women create families when it is financially prudent for them to do so through comprehensive sex education, access to contraception and abortion services.

Jessica Wakeman | The Frisky

Tuesday, October 16, 2012

Solid Gold

Two women will host the Golden Globe awards
and one of them is a newly single mother.
Tina Fey and Amy Poehler

Saturday, October 13, 2012

A Farmer's Friend

2012 Clallam County Farm Tour
Lazy J

Freedom Farm






Dungeness Valley Creamery



Friday, October 12, 2012

Kick It Up

I tried to snap a photo of Imogen swinging at the Dream Playground.
She accidentally kicked my phone and sent it flying.
This is the result.

Tuesday, October 9, 2012

Soft Place To Land


After a long day on foot
we ran into one fuzzy sentinel
after another.

Friday, October 5, 2012

Philosophy and Heroism

Ethel Kennedy was a single mother. . .
of 11.
Ethel Kennedy with 10 of her children.
She was widowed at the age of 40 while pregnant.

Thursday, October 4, 2012

Most Valuable Resource

Washington State Demographics of Young, Low-Income Children
-41% of children live in low-income families.
-45% of these children have at least one parent who works full-time.
-57% of young children in rural areas live in low-income families.
-38% of young children in urban areas live in low-income families.
-31% of children in low-income families moved last year.
-29% of low-income children live in owner-occupied housing.
Source: National Center for Children in Poverty
MomsRising.org